Nightmares versus Night Terrors: How Can I Tell Them Apart?
My youngest son began having night terrors around age 5. He’d wake up in the middle of the night shrieking, with his eyes wide open. As I tried to comfort him he became combative. Sound familiar? Knowing how to differentiate nightmares from night terrors is important as they are handled differently.
Let’s look closer:
NIGHTMARES:
- Occur towards the end of the night
- Child has a bad dream to report
- Child recognizes you
- The little guy seeks comfort
- Your LO is awake when she cries out
- Cry is familiar
- Child is coherent but agitated
- Child is aware of the bad dream
- Child calls out after a nightmare
- Child is reluctant to go back to bed
NIGHT TERRORS:
✔️Occur within the first few hours of sleep
✔️Child has no bad dream to report
✔️Child doesn’t seem to recognize you
✔️Child resists comfort
✔️The little guy isn’t totally awake when he cries out
✔️Cry may sound weird
✔️Child behaves strangely
✔️Child has no recall of events
✔️Child cries out during the night terror
✔️Child returns to sleep
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